The Crisis of Connection

Roots, Consequences, and Solutions

544 pages

8 illustrations

August, 2018

ISBN: 9781479819294



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Niobe Way is Professor of Applied Psychology at New York University's Steinhardt School of Education. She is a three-time NYU Press author/editor, having written Everyday Courage and edited Adolescent Boys as well as having co-edited Urban Girls with Bonnie Leadbeater in 1996. She is also co-editor of The Experience of Close Friendship in Adolescence.

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Alisha Ali is Associate Professor of Applied Psychology at New York University and the co-director of PACH. She is co-editor (with Dana Crowley Jack) of Silencing the Self Across Cultures: Depression and Gender in the Social World.

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Carol Gilligan is University Professor at NYU, where she initiated the Radical Listening Project and the co-founder of PACH. She isthe author of In a Different Voice and numerous other books including The Birth of Pleasure and Joining the Resistance

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Pedro Noguera is the Distinguished Professor of Education at the Graduate School of Education and Information Studies at UCLA and the co-founder of PAC H. His most recent books are: Excellence Through Equity and Race, Equity and Education

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Illuminates the roots and consequences of and offers solutions to the widespread alienation and disconnection that beset modern society 

Since the beginning of the 21st century, people have become increasingly disconnected from themselves, each other, and the world around them.  A “crisis of connection” stemming from growing alienation, social isolation, and fragmentation characterizes modern society. The signs of this “crisis of connection” are everywhere, from decreasing levels of empathy and trust, to burgeoning cases of suicide, depression and loneliness. The astronomical rise in inequality around the world has contributed to the critical nature of this moment.  

To delve into the heart of the crisis, leading researchers and practitioners draw from the science of human connection to tell a five-part story about its roots, consequences, and solutions. In doing so, they reveal how we, in modern society, have been captive to a false story about who we are as human.  This false narrative that takes individualism as a universal truth, has contributed to many of the problems that we currently face. The new story now emerging from across the human sciences underscores our social and emotional capacities and needs. The science also reveals the ways in which the privileging of the self over relationships and of individual success over the common good as well as the perpetuation of dehumanizing stereotypes have led to a crisis of connection that is now widespread. Finally, the practitioners in the volume present concrete solutions that show ways we can create a more just and humane world.  

In these divisive times, The Crisis of Connection is an essential resource for bridging the political, religious, identity-based, and ideological gaps among individuals and communities. By exposing the barriers that stand in the way of our human desire to live in connection with ourselves and each other, this book illuminates concrete pathways to enhancing our awareness of our common humanity.


  • "For our own shortsighted reasons - protection, safety, greed, ignorance - we have perfected a dangerously disconnected and dehumanizing set of discourses and practices. This profoundly important book suggests that our innate human determination to bridge differences and live in vulnerable, loving relationships is the antidote to rising fear and anxiety and the best chance we have to solve the wicked problems before us."

    —Lyn Mikel Brown, author of Powered By Girl: A Field Guide for Supporting Youth Activists